To our EJP Events community, and all the readers of Portland Wedding Coordinator, we wish you the best for 2014, as you are planning your event or working in the community of event professionals. Cheers!
"We really want an open bar, but we probably can't afford it."
"I love the idea of live music, but it probably won't work in our venue."
"We really pictured guests walking with us from ceremony to reception, but it seems like logistically it would be too hard."
The above statements are just a few I've heard this week from my couples just starting their planning. Notice anything? They are self-editing before they've even begun planning. They are killing off their wedding vision even before it has had a chance to stretch out and take its first breath.
It's sad to me when I see couples assuming that they can't have what they want, that it will be too hard, that they should just settle for the venue or setup that will be easy, so they can stop worrying. Later they'll look back and wish they had just held out for those few things they really wanted that would make the day special and worthwhile to them. In addition, those special touches (which might seem a lot of work at the time) will be their first statement as a married couple.
So, don't self-edit. Don't give up. If you have an amazing idea, get it down on paper. Pin it on Pinterest. Talk to a wedding professional who may have seen something just like it before and can help you get there. Do something — just don't let it die before you give it a chance to be part of your wedding day.
The mission of the Portland Wedding Coordinator blog is to provide original content that echoes the philosophy of EJP Events when planning a Portland or Pacific Northwest wedding. We believe in authenticity, finding value, creating the “wow”, and in making guests happy. We believe in keeping stress off the wedding couple, wedding party, hosts/family and everyone in general when planning a wedding. We believe that there doesn’t have to be a bunch of drama when planning a wedding, and that logic and common sense can go hand in hand with creativity and artistry. We believe that beautiful experiences don’t have to be overly lavish or wasteful. We believe that there is an important cultural place for the life landmark that is a wedding, and it can be a lovely jumping-off point and statement for everything that is to come for a married couple. If you agree with our beliefs, and you want your wedding experience to be well-thought-out and mindfully planned, then welcome to our community of readers!
With these points in mind, we plan to:
bring you practical advice that will help make planning a wedding easy
reveal planning tips and secrets that most people don’t consider
bring the idea of a wedding into perspective
break down myths and outdated etiquette to help the modern couple
share special touches and ideas that can make your Portland or Pacific Northwest wedding special, or which can bring a touch of Portland to your wedding
report content that represents an intelligent balance between the impractical “Wedding Porn” and the extremely-dry “bridal education” of other wedding blogs
offer advice for getting the most value out of your wedding
discuss ideas that emphasize quality, value, and great service
Some things we WON’T try to do:
Regurgitate content from other blogs and twitter just to have something to post every day. Writing original content takes time, and so does running a business.
Fawn over celebrity weddings for no reason. Especially those individuals whose celebrated status is, well, questionable. However, if a wedding is stylish and fits in with our ethos, we won’t overlook it just because it’s also Page Six-worthy!
Blindly follow trends and traditions without examining the motivation or history behind them
Make you feel bad or left out for not buying the latest, greatest wedding gadget or product or add-on.
Finally, we’ll never pump up a product for pay. Product or vendor reviews on our site will occur independently, without compensation or kickbacks.
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